China ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu, kotero popereka mphatso pa nthawi ya zikondwerero, anthu safuna kuti mphatsoyo ikhale yabwino kapena yoipa, koma amasamala kwambiri za phukusi la mphatso. Zoonadi, kukulunga mphatso bwino kumatha kukopa chidwi cha anthu ndikusiya chithunzi chabwino kwa anthu, ndiye kodi kukulunga mphatso kumatanthauza chiyani?
Mu kapangidwe ka mphatso za chikondwerero cha zinthu zosiyanasiyana, mtundu unganenedwe kuti ndi chinthu chofunikira. Anthu amadziwa kuti, UTOTO NDI CHINTHU CHA CHOMWE CHIMAONEKA, sichikhala ndi malingaliro, mgwirizano ndi tanthauzo lophiphiritsira ngati chinthu chakuthupi chokha, pamene mtundu ukachitapo kanthu pa ziwalo zowoneka za anthu, umayambitsa kukondoweza kwa thupi ndi zotsatira zake, zimayambitsa anthu kuyankha mozama. Kuyankha kwa anthu ku mtundu kumakhala kochokera pamalingaliro awo pamlingo winawake. Kuzindikira kwa anthu ndi momwe amachitira ndi mtundu kumapanga malingaliro enieni a mtundu, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti mitundu yosiyanasiyana igwirizane, kenako zimapangitsa kuti malingaliro awa azizindikirike.
Pamene zinthu zokhudzana ndi mtundu wa malingaliro zimayamba kuchoka pa zinthu zenizeni kupita ku malingaliro osamveka bwino komanso lingaliro la zaluso, zikadzakhala chizindikiro cha kufunika kwa chilengedwe chonse, zimathandiza anthu kusamutsa malingaliro mopanda mphamvu, ndipo kusamutsa kwamtunduwu kuchokera ku zenizeni kupita ku malingaliro osamveka bwino kumapanga gawo lalikulu la chikhalidwe cha mitundu. Picasso adati mtundu, monga mawonekedwe, umayenderana ndi malingaliro athu. Mtundu ndi chilankhulo chofotokozera zaluso, chomwe chingayambitse malingaliro osiyanasiyana ndi mayanjano pakati pa ogula ndikupanga malingaliro osiyanasiyana aulesi.
Ma phukusi amphatso a Tsiku la Valentine angasankhe mitundu yofunda komanso yachikondi, kusonyeza malingaliro amphamvu; Mphatso za zikondwerero zachikhalidwe zitha kuphatikizidwa ndi mitundu yofunda, yowala komanso yotentha, yomwe imayimira kufunika monga chikondwerero, mwayi, ubwenzi ndi kuwona mtima.
Utoto ngati chilankhulo cha kapangidwe, mu chikondwerero cha mphatso zonyamula mphatso tanthauzo lake ndi lozama komanso mwaluso kugwiritsa ntchito malamulo okhudza malingaliro a mtundu, mtundu wa lenovo ukhoza kuwonetsa udindo wophiphiritsa wa mtundu, ukhoza kukoka kwambiri mawu a anthu kuti akakamize ndikuyambitsa chidwi ndi malingaliro a anthu, kuwonetsa malingaliro ndi malingaliro a anthu, kulimbikitsa anthu kuti achitepo kanthu pamalingaliro awo, potsiriza kukwaniritsa cholinga cha msika chokopa chidwi cha ogula ndikupanga malonda enieni.
