China ndi miyambo yachikhalidwe, choncho popereka mphatso pa zikondwerero, anthu satsatira phindu la mphatsoyo siabwino kapena choyipa, koma perekani chidwi ndi mphatso. Inde, mphatso yabwino yokuluka ndi mphatso ikhoza kudzutsa chidwi cha anthu ndikusiya chidwi cha anthu, ndiye tanthauzo la kukulunga kwa mphatso ndi chiyani?
Mu chikondwerero cha chikondwerero cha zinthu zosiyanasiyana zinthu zosiyanasiyana, mtundu umatha kunenedwa kuti ndi chinthu chofunikira. Anthu amadziwa, utoto ndi mtundu wa zowoneka bwino, zimakhala ndi zotengeka, mayanjano ndi kufunika kokhala ndi zinthu zowoneka bwino, zomwe zimayambitsa kuyankha kwamphamvu kwa anthu. Zochita za anthu zomwe zimachitika kuti zizikhala ndi mtundu wake. Maganizo a anthu komanso malingaliro amthupi ndi malingaliro a mtundu wa mitundu yosiyanasiyana, yomwe imatsogolera mayanjano osiyanasiyana, kenako ndikuwonetsetsa kuti izi zikuimira.
Pamene kuyanjana kwa mitundu ya utoto kumachokera kuzimake ndi malingaliro a ma cyrete kuti muchepetse malingaliro ndi malingaliro ofunikira kwambiri, komanso mtundu wamtunduwu kusinthitsa chikhalidwe chachikulu. Picasso ananena kuti utoto, ngati mawonekedwe, amayendera limodzi ndi mtima wathu. Mtundu ndi chilankhulo chaluso, chomwe chingapangitse malingaliro osiyanasiyana ndi mayanjano osiyanasiyana pakati pa ogula ndikupanga mawonekedwe aulesi.
Paketi ya Tsiku la Valentine ya Valentine imatha kusankha mitundu yotentha komanso yachikondi, yosonyeza kukhumudwa; Mphatso za zikondwerero zachikhalidwe zimatha kuphatikizidwa ndi mitundu yotentha, yotentha komanso yofunda, yomwe imayimira malingaliro monga chikondwerero, kukoma mtima, ubale ndi kukhulupirika.
Utoto ngati chilankhulo chojambula, mu chikondwerero cha chikondwerero cha chikondwerero ndi kugwiritsa ntchito madongosolo a mitundu, yomwe imapangitsa kuti anthu azichita bwino, pamapeto pake amatha kukwaniritsa cholinga cha ogula ndikupanga malonda enieni.
